Buy Home Decor After You Envision Your Home's Character

For the first nineteen years of my life I lived in thefrom scratch, since we had brought nothing with us. I
same town in my parents home. Whatever homewent through the routine of sitting in different corners
decor there was interested me little, it was just there.of the empty rooms and envisioned what, of the things
Then I went to Italy for a year and lived with an ItalianI had seen in magazines and home decor stores,
Duke and his family. They lived in a villa in Rome. Therewould look good in that house. I settled on country
I noticed the home decor. The rooms were huge. Thecottage style home decor and in the end, of all the
Duchess had a penchant for elaborate baroque wallhomes we had lived in, this one, still today, was the one
mirrors. They were everywhere, with the rest of thewe felt most comfortable and at home in.Our bliss
home decor to match. Most days the gardener cutlasted for almost two years until my husband was
arms full of fresh flowers. I often helped to carry themtransferred to Atlanta, Georgia. Fortunately the
because I liked to follow him around so that I could lookcompany let us fly there ahead of time to check the
at the classical art statue sculptures and fountains.place out and I could see right away that in the colonial
They, and marble benches, strategically placedstyle homes we looked at, country cottage home
between the trees and flowers, were the gardendecor would never do. My husband came to an
decor. Since I liked to do it, it soon became my job toagreement with his company, that instead of paying
arrange the flowers in decorative vases. I had a freefor the movers to transport our furniture, they would
hand in placing them on tables, cabinets and plantgive him a lump sum.With great pleasure I acquainted
stands. It wasn't exactly decorating, but it gave me amyself with colonial style home decor, sat in the empty
satisfying feeling to contribute something to thoserooms envisioning what to put where and in the end
marvelous rooms.After one year I moved to Paris,came up with a truly elegant period masterpiece. What
France. Not much scope for home decorating there. Ia delight it was to entertain in that house.I should have
lived in a tiny furnished room, where the home decorknown that it would not last but must admit that I said
consisted of a narrow bed, a pine wood chair, ayes faster than my husband when his boss offered
wardrobe and a wood cabinet with a washbowl. Ahim a job in Nepal.We had no idea what to expect in
bare light bulb hung from the ceiling. All I added was athat country. Things seemed primitive compared to
decorative mirror, a reading lamp and a crystal vase,what we were used to but we loved it. We found a
which I kept filled with fresh flowers from therather grand looking house where the water pipes and
market.After that it was exciting to move into a houseelectrical lines were all outside the walls. The fuse
near Los Angeles, California, which I shared with myboxes were right by the entrance so that everybody
sister. Without much planning, we decided what wecould see that this house was modern enough to have
needed and went out to buy whatever appealed to us.such luxuries. The floors were naked cement and
As nice as the furniture had looked in the showroom,there was no heating. Sitting in corners of the empty
somehow, in that house it did not seem right. For onerooms to envision them furnished did not do it here
thing, it was much too massive and the colors clashedeither, since there were no stores where one could
with the paint colors and window coverings. We didjust go and buy furniture. Simple beds, with hemp
not have much time to stew over it since we bothcords strung between the sides and badly made
carried a full load of courses at the college andwhicker chairs were all one could buy ready made.
worked four hours after class and eight on Saturdays.Other expatriates advised us to get pictures of home
The day after I graduated, I got married and mydecor we would like to have and take them to a
wonderful husband and I moved into an apartmentcarpenter who may or may not come up with
near his work. At first I had fun buying new furnituresomething similar. We did and also found a place in the
and making the place look nice, but soon I realized thatbazaar where we could order coir carpeting. It did not
apartment living was not for me. I missed wanderinglook like much but felt invigoratingly rough under bare
between the flowers and sitting on the garden benchfeet. Dishes, cutlery and whatever else one needs in a
under the open sky with that first cup of coffee,home also were of ghastly quality, but it did not matter,
As soon as our lease was up, we moved into anobody else had anything better, except for embassy
house on a steep hillside. We used the furniture westaff, who got everything shipped in. Slowly the pieces
had, even though it looked out of place. Going aroundof furniture we had ordered were delivered and little
to flea markets and buying items without thinkingby little the place started to look like a home. Finally we
whether they would fit in with what we had, did notcould reciprocate for all the many invitations we had
help. At the same time my husband inherited his uncle'saccepted from ex pats and local people alike. We
collectible knives, swords and sabers. They presentedmight not have had the home decor we would have
a real challenge for me. What was I to do with homeliked but since the electricity often failed anyhow, by
decor like that?Mother Nature soon took care of mycandlelight it did look delightful. Besides, we had one of
dilemma. The house and most of what we ownedthe best cooks in Katmandu and visitors told us that
was burned in the Bel Air fire. Of course I was verythey would have come to eat his food, had the house
sad about the loss, yet I was excited.been empty.
Here was my chance to start all over again and thisWe were supposed to go back to the United States
time I intended to make the home decor match theafter my husband's contract was up but even before
house.We rented a bungalow with a slanting roof, dark,that, his boss wanted him to transfer to Madras, India.
exposed beams and lots of windows. We moved inBy good fortune we found
with just a few borrowed necessities and stacks ofan almost new bungalow which had been build on
home decor magazines and books. As I saw picturesstilts so as to not disturb the roots of a huge holy tree
of things that appealed to me, I would sit in differentin front of it. The house was built in a square around a
corners of the empty room I wanted to furnish andcourtyard with a mango tree in the middle and all
envisioned imaginary items in place. It was a greatrooms had big glass double doors opening out to it.
method to decide on my selection. Lime green andWhen I saw the place, I could immediately envision a
lemon yellow were very much in fashion then andgarden theme and was glad to find fabrics with a
probably would have looked ghastly in any of the otherlattice and bamboo design for the curtains and
dwellings we had had. But in that house, with the darkmatching green upholstery for the sofas and chairs
beams, dark oak flooring and big windows framed bywe had made. Even though it took many trips to the
citrus trees, I could envision that it would look nice. Andbazaar, and frequent reminders to the carpenters,
it did. It was a delightful home.A year later my husbandeventually all the home decor complimented the
decided to go back to college for his Masters Degree.garden feeling I had wanted to achieve. It was like living
We loaded what we could into our Volkswagen Bus,outdoors.After that we moved fourteen more times,
sold the rest of our belongings and headed for Austin,always to different countries, all over the world, without
Texas, accompanied by two babies and a cat. Moneyever bringing any furnishings with us. Each time I went
was tight and home decor took a back seat to all else.through the same process of sitting in the empty
Like so many student accommodations, ours had a lotrooms, envisioning the results I wanted to achieve, then
of make-do furnishings. The bricks and boards bookfinding the right home decor. The results were always
shelves, the milk crate and plywood tables and secondperfect for that particular house.Few people move as
hand sofas and beds. Our newborn slept in what usedmuch as we did. For them it is even more important,
to be a packing box for toilet paper, nicely lined withright at the beginning, to decorate their home to suit it's
colorful fabric. It didn't seem to matter. I devoted mycharacter. Having chosen what looks right then will still
time to my children. My husband devoted his time tolook right years later.Elisabeth Mcgill is now living in
his studies .In less than twelve month he got his degreeArizona. To put her experience with home decorating
and was recommended by his professor to ato good use, she is in the process of starting a home
company in Pasadena, California.decor business. More on that when everything is in
We found a lovely cottage style home. Once again Iplace.
was absolutely thrilled to be able to start decorating