| Our family's cleaning and chore schedules have varied | | | | cook dinner every evening because I enjoy it. |
| widely over | | | | Between cooking, |
| the years. In two short years we have gone from | | | | feeding the boys, and getting them ready for bed, that |
| having one | | | | is about |
| teenager in the home to having two teenagers and | | | | all I have time for in an evening. Having the girls do the |
| two toddlers. | | | | other |
| In the past I have tended to do much of the | | | | chores is a huge help.When I created the schedule, I |
| housework myself, | | | | did keep in mind the girls' |
| with help off and on from my teenage daughter. Our | | | | outside activities. For instance, if I know one of the girls |
| cleaning | | | | has |
| schedule was very different then. We got away with | | | | an activity one night I won't have her do the dishes |
| vacuuming | | | | that night. |
| once or twice a week and didn't even do the dishes | | | | I have set up a schedule where each night one |
| every day.Our lifestyle changed dramatically when I | | | | daughter picks up |
| was pregnant with our | | | | and vacuums and the other daughter does the dishes. |
| twins. It got to the point I could do no housework at all. | | | | Those are |
| At | | | | the two biggest chores. Then they usually have one |
| the time my daughter was 17 years old, attending | | | | other small |
| community | | | | chore. Most nights their chores take 20 minutes or |
| college, and working at a part time job. I was not | | | | less, but |
| requiring her | | | | save me at least an hour of extra work. On |
| to do much housework because of her busy | | | | Saturdays they clean |
| schedule. While I was | | | | their bedrooms, and take turns cleaning their |
| pregnant we both decided she would quit her job and | | | | bathroom.We haven't had any problems getting the |
| work for me | | | | girls to do their chores. |
| instead, doing housework, cooking dinner, and doing | | | | First of all, they can't go anywhere until their chores |
| grocery | | | | are done. |
| shopping for me. This arrangement worked very well | | | | If they still choose not to do their chores they will not |
| for us and I | | | | get |
| enjoyed the extra time we got to spend together. | | | | their allowance. Although one daughter also has a part |
| She was able to | | | | time job |
| easily find a new part time job after her brothers | | | | we also decided to give her a small allowance for |
| were born and | | | | doing household |
| I started doing more housework again.After the birth | | | | chores because she spends so much of the rest of |
| of our twins my teenage step-daughter moved in | | | | her time doing |
| with us. It wasn't until the boys began to crawl and | | | | homework and working at her other job. We wanted |
| then walk | | | | to give her a |
| that the housework became totally unmanageable | | | | small incentive and to let her know her help is |
| and I had to admit | | | | appreciated.We keep track of chores on a dry erase |
| I couldn't do it all on my own. That is when we started | | | | board that has a calendar |
| our | | | | pre-printed on it. Every month I write in the days for |
| daily "chore chart".First I wrote down the chores with | | | | the new |
| which I needed the most help:Daily ChoresDishes, clean | | | | month and write in the girls' chores for every day. |
| kitchen | | | | There is no |
| Pick up and vacuum living room and dining room | | | | confusion as to who has what chores.You can adjust |
| Take out kitchen garbageTwice-a-Week ChoresMop | | | | your chore charts to suit your needs. You may not |
| kitchen floor | | | | need your living room vacuumed every day like we |
| Clean litter box | | | | do. Chores can |
| Do a load of laundryOnce-a-Week ChoresTake out | | | | be varied according to how many children you have |
| all garbages | | | | and their ages.Rachel Paxton is a freelance writer and |
| Put garbage can up on street | | | | mom who is the author of |
| Clean bedroom | | | | What's for Dinner?, an e-cookbook containing more |
| Clean kids' bathroomThis cleaning schedule has | | | | than 250 quick |
| worked very well for us. I choose to | | | | easy dinner ideas. |